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Jan. 5th, 2024 10:14 pm19. Fill in the blank: As a parent I ______________
Try to let Wendy figure it out on her own.
20. What are your hopes and dreams for your child(ren)?
That they don't grow up superficial. Or at least to choose paths that - should it be a superficial one (for example, modeling) that they exploit it to their advantage but not in a way where they're not aware of how fleeting all that superficial stuff is -- and look towards other avenues of income and serving the community (like you know, you can be a nurse/doctor/accountant/dentist/whatever who is a model. For example) Probably preferably healthcare fields without nightshift.
21. If you could give your child anything in the world what would it be?
No financial burdens.
a second language. -- for this one I gotta start learning ...
22. List your top 3 strengths and how they positively impact your family.
Pretty relaxed overall.
But like to pack it in.
Don't want to change anyone from how they are. It's too stressful for everyone. I find it stressful when someone wants to change me.
I guess some people don't really understand what it's like to be on the receiving end.
23. What was your most favourite and least favourite part of pregnancy?
First day after birth was nice. Wendy smelt like - that smell you get when you first step into a forrest + fresh roses from a rosebush combined.
Least Fave? 1st trimester stinks. Even without the vomiting (I hardly had any with Wendy) instead i had dizzyness and extreeme tiredness. Yuck.
GDM sucks too but at least you feel normal (even if your sugars aren't).
24. What top 3 qualities do you wish to instill in your child(ren)?
This was like q. 20 above...
Why am I still awake? Kiddo is asleep in her own damn bed for once because I figured she might enjoy having a little cute bed all to herself that she could get in and out of - and turns out. I was right! yesterday anyways. It's 20cm off the ground and Wendy sleeps like a rolling helicopter about to crash so see so that's her safety net. New bed has no cot sides.
Try to let Wendy figure it out on her own.
20. What are your hopes and dreams for your child(ren)?
That they don't grow up superficial. Or at least to choose paths that - should it be a superficial one (for example, modeling) that they exploit it to their advantage but not in a way where they're not aware of how fleeting all that superficial stuff is -- and look towards other avenues of income and serving the community (like you know, you can be a nurse/doctor/accountant/dentist/whatever who is a model. For example) Probably preferably healthcare fields without nightshift.
21. If you could give your child anything in the world what would it be?
No financial burdens.
a second language. -- for this one I gotta start learning ...
22. List your top 3 strengths and how they positively impact your family.
Pretty relaxed overall.
But like to pack it in.
Don't want to change anyone from how they are. It's too stressful for everyone. I find it stressful when someone wants to change me.
I guess some people don't really understand what it's like to be on the receiving end.
23. What was your most favourite and least favourite part of pregnancy?
First day after birth was nice. Wendy smelt like - that smell you get when you first step into a forrest + fresh roses from a rosebush combined.
Least Fave? 1st trimester stinks. Even without the vomiting (I hardly had any with Wendy) instead i had dizzyness and extreeme tiredness. Yuck.
GDM sucks too but at least you feel normal (even if your sugars aren't).
24. What top 3 qualities do you wish to instill in your child(ren)?
This was like q. 20 above...
Why am I still awake? Kiddo is asleep in her own damn bed for once because I figured she might enjoy having a little cute bed all to herself that she could get in and out of - and turns out. I was right! yesterday anyways. It's 20cm off the ground and Wendy sleeps like a rolling helicopter about to crash so see so that's her safety net. New bed has no cot sides.
